The terrible task of documenting abuse

Some number of years ago, a man who’d first found me from my posts on Quora started messaging me. Please pardon me for some fuzziness of recall in this account — I could trawl through digital history to find specifics, but I think the emotional truth of the story comes through without them, and as you’ll see, part of the story is the difficulty of experiencing and re-visiting the trauma.

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